Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers: 10 things you can do to participate


5th International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers

On December 17th, people around the world will be calling attention to hate crimes perpetrated against sex workers. Here are a few suggestions, written by Dr. Annie Sprinkle, for ways to participate:

1. Do something of personal meaning alone at home; take a ritual bath, or simply think about those who have died, light a candle, make a wish, have a cry, call a friend and discuss the topic, etc.

2. Write a short personal quote or a statement about violence against sex workers and send it to the SWOP web site for them to post.

3. Send a donation to a nonprofit group that helps sex workers stay safer.

4. Organize a public memorial event in your town. If not, choose a place, and time, where you can gather. Make an email letter and/or flier and get it around with news of the event. Invite people to bring writings, stories, readings, thoughts, related news items, poems, performances, etc. Make a circle at the event. Take turns sharing. This will make for a wonderful memorial and be great for consciousness raising and outreach as well.

5. Organize a panel discussion about violence towards sex workers. You can ask a church or other community space if you can do it there.

6. Send news of this event to any and all press you know, so the word gets out that there are people who care about murdered sex workers, and who are concerned with the safety of sex workers out there today.

7. Attend one of the events which is listed on the SWOP web site.

8. If you know any sex workers, send them some information about self-defense.

9. Send a personal email letter to people telling them how you feel about violence against sex workers and the women who were murdered by serial killer Gary Ridgway. Or email this letter around.

10. Read Daisy Anarchy's poem (click here) to yourself or to friends, or at one of the public events. Or email it around.


ATL folks, remember:

December 17, 2007
7:00-8:30pm
Charis Books and More
1189 Euclid Ave NE (in the Little Five Points Business District)

myspace.com/redumbrellaatlanta
upcoming.yahoo.com/event/328271
facebook.com/event.php?eid=6034139586

Call to action: Virtual rally for sexual assault victim Monday, Nov. 5th

Rape is NOT an Occupational Hazard!

Sex Workers Join Women's Groups and Sexual Assault Survivors' Groups to Urge PA Voters to Vote 'No' on the Retention of Judge Teresa Carr Deni

Who: Sex workers, allies and supporters
What: Live blog action
Why: To oust Judge Teresa Carr Deni in PA
When: Monday, November 5th, 2007 - 5pm Eastern / 2pm Pacific
Where: http://www.BoundNotGagged.com

Calling all sex workers and supporters! On Monday November 5th the Desiree Alliance will host a virtual rally to stand in solidarity with the sexual assault victim in PA whose case was reduced to 'theft of services' by Judge Teresa Carr Deni. We support the efforts of local activists in Philadelphia to raise voter awareness about Judge Deni and to encourage voters to vote 'No' to retain her in Tuesday's elections. Please join us by sharing a personal story, reflections, art/poetry or any other messages/images that you feel are important or relevant. New contributors are welcome at the blog! If you're not already an author at Bound, Not Gagged and you'd like to be, send an email to: BoundNotGagged@gmail.com.

We encourage contributors to make a post either over the weekend or before 5pm Eastern on Monday, then join us at the blog on Monday at 5pm to comment on other people's posts, add more content, ask/answer questions, etc. Thank you for supporting our efforts to raise awareness about violence against sex workers! If you have any questions, please contact stacey@desireealliance.org.

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More information at Bound, Not Gagged. Please forward far and wide, and please participate!!

A Dear John(s Creek) Letter

Woke up this morning, fixed breakfast for my wife, kissed her goodbye and took a shower. This is my normal routine. Nothing special, though I do fix a mean bowl of oatmeal.

The house phone rang just as a I stepped out of the shower. I know this is my wife, calling en route to work, because anyone else would call my cellphone. And what does she tell me? For one, she says that the car started. That's good news, as her battery has been a bit flaky. For another thing, she wants to know if I left her car door open. And did I look through her glove compartment. And was I looking for anything in the center console. I answer "No" to all of these questions. This is bad news, because if I didn't rifle through her stuff, then somebody else who is neither she nor I did.

Was anything taken? She didn't think so. Whoever it was, they saw no value in the iPod adapter or any other random ephemera. There's not much we can do. We can't report it unless we're home, so we decide to do so later. She always leaves her car door unlocked, but I suppose that practice will have to change.

A few minutes later, after I finish getting dressed and gather myself together, I head out to the driveway. Now, I lock my car doors, almost always. So I'm surprised to look into my passenger side window and see my own glove box open, my own center console open as well. I test the door, and it opens. Turns out that I didn't lock my own doors last night when we got home. I was distracted, I suppose, from wanting to see if Nikki's car would start. So after testing that successfully, I went on inside.

Was anything stolen? One thing, it seems. A Leatherman multi-tool. It belonged to my father-in-law. He'd left it in my car when last he worked on it. Everything else is still there, I think. The contents of my glove box were taken out, restacked and replaced. I know this because some folded prescriptions from a recent appointment are now in the center of the stack instead of the top.

So there you have it. Both of our cars were visited without invitation at some point last night. In the space of one evening, our neighborhood has become a place where we have to lock our car doors.

And this morning, I asked myself just what were we to do in this situation. We cannot call our local police, because they don't exist anywhere but on paper. Johns Creek might be a "real" city now, but our safety is still secured by Fulton County's Finest. This is just as well, as they've always been very responsive in the past, but still I have to wonder when Johns Creek will start helping itself.

And when it does, will the promised police cruisers make regular circuits through our little neighborhood, situated as it is right at the far southern tip of Johns Creek? We have no home owner's association. Our neighbors live in modest homes. Might we be forgotten?

Crime is a problem everywhere. It exists by degrees. And it would seem that our degree is rising, ever so much. And yet, the most recent expressions of concern and safety in our city of Johns Creek have centered not on actual crime, but on the financial aspirations of John Cornetta, he of the Love Shack debacle from last December. He wants to open a restaurant, so the cry has gone out to defend our children from innuendo and beer.

Is Cornetta a saint? Probably not. But I'm pretty damned sure that he's not walking around with my father-in-law's Leatherman in his pocket. Who is? Some teenager, most likely. One that is disaffected, bored and needing some kind of illicit spark in his life. And he is finding it in my neighborhood. He's taking the easy route now, just peeking in on cars left unlocked, but with each successive thrill, he's going to become more brave.

What, pray tell, are you going to do? You made Johns Creek a reality because you thought we'd be better off as a city alone, rather than as a part of the greater county surrounding. You might have plans, big plans for more police and better roads and so on, but plans aren't watching my home or patrolling my little neighborhood.

So I ask again... what are you going to do?

[Cross-posted at Grabbing Sand]